The Sanctuary Within...
- Koöko Fleurs
- Jan 1
- 3 min read

A gentle exploration of the quiet place we carry inside.
There is a place within each of us that does not disappear, even when life feels loud, rushed, or uncertain. It is not a room we enter with our feet, but a space we return to with our breath. A sanctuary — quiet, steady, patient — waiting beneath the surface of our days.
For many, this inner sanctuary is forgotten early. We learn to move quickly, to adapt, to protect ourselves by tightening around what hurts. Yet the sanctuary never leaves. It simply waits for us to remember the way back.
A place made of presence
The sanctuary within is not built from walls or rituals, though both can help us find it. It is built from presence — the moment we pause long enough to feel our own aliveness. It is the warmth behind the sternum, the softening of the jaw, the breath that deepens without being asked.
It is the moment we stop performing and start inhabiting ourselves again.
A place of protection
Inside this sanctuary, we are allowed to be exactly as we are.
Not improved.
Not corrected.
Not optimized.
Just human.
Here, the nervous system loosens its grip. The body remembers its own intelligence. The heart is allowed to speak in its own language — sometimes through images, sometimes through sensations, sometimes through silence.
This is where healing begins: not in effort, but in permission.
A place of expression
The sanctuary within is also a studio — a place where inner life takes form.
Through color, gesture, words, movement, or the simple act of noticing, we give shape to what has been waiting to be seen.
Expression is not performance.
It is a return.
When we create from this place, we are not trying to impress the world. We are listening to ourselves. We are translating the invisible into something we can hold, understand, and honor.
A place of nourishment
The sanctuary within feeds us in ways the outer world cannot.
It offers:
- Rest that is not sleep
- Clarity that is not logic
- Strength that is not force
- Beauty that is not decoration
It is the place where we gather ourselves, where we remember what matters, where we reconnect with the quiet dignity of simply being alive.
A place we can cultivate
Some people find their sanctuary through art.
Others through breath, ritual, movement, or the soft presence of a companion — human or animal.
Some find it in the stillness of early morning, the weight of a blanket, the scent of a flower, or the warmth of a cup held with both hands.
There is no single doorway.
There is only the willingness to pause.
The sanctuary within grows each time we choose slowness over urgency, gentleness over judgment, curiosity over fear.
A place we can return to
No matter how far we drift, the sanctuary remains.
It is not fragile.
It does not punish.
It does not close.
It waits.
And each time we return, we find a little more of ourselves — the parts we abandoned, the parts we silenced, the parts we thought were lost. They are still there, patient and intact, ready to be welcomed home.
Returning to Your Inner Sanctuary
Take a moment to settle wherever you are.
Let your body find a position that feels honest — not perfect, not posed, simply true.
Step 1 — Place a hand on your chest
Feel the quiet weight of your palm.
Notice the warmth beneath it.
This is your first doorway.
Step 2 — Breathe softly
Not deeper.
Not better.
Just softer.
Let the breath arrive as it wishes.
Let it leave without being held.
Step 3 — Name what is here
Silently, gently, acknowledge what you feel in this moment.
A word.
A color.
A texture.
A sensation.
Whatever appears is welcome.
Step 4 — Imagine a small light
Somewhere inside — behind the sternum, in the belly, in the throat — imagine a soft light.
Not bright.
Not dramatic.
Just steady.
This is your sanctuary.
It has always been here.
Step 5 — Offer yourself one sentence
A sentence that feels like a hand on your back.
It might be:
- “I am allowed to rest.”
- “I am safe to feel.”
- “I am returning to myself.”
- “I am here.”
Choose the one that lands.
Or let a new one rise.
Step 6 — Close with gratitude
Not forced gratitude.
Not a performance.
Just a quiet thank you — to your body, your breath, your inner sanctuary for meeting you.
When you’re ready, open your eyes or lift your gaze.
Carry this softness with you into whatever comes next.










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