Understanding Differential Psychology in My Therapeutic Practice
- Koöko Fleurs
- Sep 5
- 2 min read

Why We’re All Different—and Why That Matters in Therapy and Art
In my work as a psychotherapist and mindfulness-based art practitioner, I often begin with a simple truth: no two people are alike. This isn’t just poetic—it’s scientific. The field of differential psychology explores the rich tapestry of human differences: in personality, intelligence, emotional sensitivity, and more. Understanding these differences allows me to tailor each session, each creative ritual, to the unique soul sitting across from me.
What Is Differential Psychology?
Differential psychology is the study of interindividual differences—how and why people vary in their psychological traits. It doesn’t pathologize; it celebrates diversity. It asks questions like:
- Why do some people thrive in chaos while others need structure?
- Why do certain minds light up through movement, while others prefer quiet reflection?
- How do personality traits shape how we heal, grow, and express ourselves?
This field draws on research in intelligence, personality, emotional regulation, and cognitive styles, offering a framework to understand each person’s psychological fingerprint.
How It Shapes My Practice
In therapy and art, differential psychology helps me:
- Adapt mindfulness techniques to suit different nervous systems
- Choose artistic media that resonate with a client’s cognitive and emotional style
- Understand personality traits that influence how someone engages with healing
- Honor cultural, gender, and neurodiverse identities with sensitivity and nuance
For example, a client with high emotional sensitivity and introversion may benefit from quiet, symbolic art and gentle breathwork. Another with strong verbal intelligence and extroversion might thrive in expressive journaling and collaborative painting.
Why It Matters
When we recognize psychological differences, we move away from one-size-fits-all therapy. We begin to see each person as a living system, shaped by biology, experience, and spirit. This is where healing becomes truly personal—and where art becomes a mirror of the soul.
Ready to explore your own psychological fingerprint?
If you’ve ever felt like traditional therapy didn’t quite fit, or if you’re curious about how mindfulness and creativity can be tailored to your unique way of being, I invite you to explore this path with me. In my practice, your individuality isn’t just accepted—it’s the starting point.
If you're curious about how mindfulness and art can be tailored to your unique way of thinking, feeling, and being, I invite you to connect with me. Whether you're seeking therapy, creative healing, or simply a space to be seen as you truly are, my practice is here to welcome you.
Let’s begin your journey—one brushstroke, breath, and insight at a time.