Depression and Identity: A Poetic Reframing Through Art Therapy
- Koöko Fleurs
- Oct 14
- 3 min read

Depression is not a flaw—it’s a rupture. A signal. A sacred invitation to return to wholeness.
In a world that often rewards performance over presence, depression can feel like exile from one’s own body, story, and sense of belonging. But beneath its layers lies a quiet truth: depression is not the absence of strength—it is the call to re-root, reframe, and reawaken.
The Many Layers of Depression
Depression is not one thing. It is often a constellation of emotional, physical, and existential pain. It can arise from:
- External factors: family dynamics, loss, trauma, or chronic stress
- Hidden illness: undiagnosed physical conditions or neurochemical imbalances
- Unmet needs: the inability to succeed, be seen, or feel received
- Identity rupture: losing touch with one’s beliefs, values, or sense of purpose
These layers often lead to retrospection and introspection, which—while necessary—can spiral into self-doubt, guilt, and emotional paralysis. We begin to question our own existence, our worth, our place in the world.
The Body as Sanctuary
One of the most painful aspects of depression is the rejection of the body. We may feel unwelcome in our own skin, disconnected from our physical vessel. This rejection is difficult to name, yet deeply felt. When we mistreat the body—through neglect, self-harm, or emotional withdrawal—it responds. This is not punishment, but a call to mindfulness.
The body is not just a container—it is a sanctuary, a living archive of our experiences, emotions, and resilience. To heal, we must re-enter it gently, with reverence.
Art Therapy: A Gentle Return

Art therapy offers a non-verbal, emotionally safe way to explore depression. It allows individuals to:
- Externalize pain through color, texture, and metaphor
- Reclaim agency by choosing materials and symbols
- Rebuild identity through visual storytelling and ritualized creation
In therapeutic workshops, participants can explore themes of loss, rejection, and resilience without needing to “explain” or “justify” their emotions. The art becomes a mirror, a witness, and a companion.
Depression as a Signal: “I Am Not Whole”
You’re not wrong, Marie-Élisabeth. Depression often signals that something is missing—something vital. It is not weakness, but a call for healing. A call to re-layer, re-pray, and re-root.
In PNL (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), we look at the results we seek and the behaviors that support or sabotage them. Depression demands:
- Behavioral flexibility: the ability to adapt, reframe, and choose new paths
- Auto-reflection: deep, compassionate inquiry into our beliefs and patterns
- Resilience: not as toughness, but as self-preservation and self-cultivation
Mapping the Terrain of Healing
To prevent or dissolve depression, we must gently ask:
- Where do I come from?
- Where am I now?
- Why am I here?
- What is making me sick?
These questions are not diagnostic—they are poetic prompts for healing. They help us trace the roots of our suffering, whether in our environment, relationships, or internalized beliefs.
Depression is not the end—it is the threshold. Through art, ritual, and introspection, we can begin to re-enter our sanctuary, reclaim our story, and restore our wholeness.
You are not broken. You are becoming....










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